Take a moment and think back to your childhood, for some of
you, it may take several moments, I’ll wait.
Can you remember the
anticipation of a childhood event? Do you recall what your thoughts were of the
event and the anxious anticipation of what the future would bring? One thought
comes to mind, many of you may remember the comment; “wait till your father
gets home”. What did that feel like? The
anxious anticipation of what was to befall you and the nervous anxiety of
waiting and when the moment arrived, your imagination of what would, happen was
far worse than what actually happened. Think about the excitement you felt when
something you had waited your entire life for, was about to happen. What did
that feel like? How large of an imagination did you have? Many of us thought
about the event and never gave a thought of the journey between the announcement
and the actual event.
November 25th, 1964, just after noon, I found
myself sitting on a large wooden chair in the principal’s office, my hands
gripping the edge of the seat and kicking my legs back and forth to annoyance
of the school secretary. She stared at me over her pink horn rimmed glasses as
she typed on the manual Royal typewriter. Two girls from my class, wearing
black and white Oxford shoes with white anklet socks, gray and green plaid
skirts with white blouses, stopped at the door, whispered something between
themselves and walked down the hallway giggling. As I sat there waiting,
watching the second hand on the clock slowly tick off the seconds and hearing
each second pass, suddenly my mother walks into the office and the secretary
smiled at my mother, happily anticipating the exit of the hyper child who had
annoyed her for the last ten minutes. I wasn’t in any trouble, my mother was
there to lead me out to the family car for our journey to the mountains of
South Eastern Kentucky and my grandparents’ home for Thanksgiving dinner.
As we stepped out the doors of the school, it was a typical
November day in Northern Indiana, gray skies with a light mist in the air, the
smell of fall, a chill breeze, naked trees and the sound of our shoes leather
soles clicking on the surface of the red brick sidewalk. As I climbed into the
backseat with my sisters, I asked my father if he had packed it and he
acknowledged he had as my mother sat in the front seat with a snarled look on
her face. With some coaxing from my grandfather and father, my mother agreed
for me to go hunting in the mountains with my grandfather’s hounds. She had
brought a strong argument on why I shouldn’t go by myself and she was very
concerned for my wellbeing but I had to remind her; I was a half grown man and
I knew the mountains and it was time for her to cut the apron strings. My
father smiled at me, placed his hand on my mother’s leg as she turned her face
to the side window and stared at nothing.
As my father pulled away from the front of the school, the
clatter of the tires rolling over the brick streets became a subtle roar which
almost drowned out the sound of the AM radio station. It would be a twelve hour,
five hundred mile drive to get to my grandparent’s home. President Eisenhower
had signed the Interstate highway bill eight years earlier but there was
nothing but two lane roads through the countryside to get to our destination.
The brick streets switched to pavement and the Indiana countryside was busy
with the fall harvest in full swing with the fallow colored harvested corn
stalks littering the fields. Passing patches of woods and cattle grazing in
sparsely green and brown pastures, our car headed south through many small
towns with the store fronts decorated with fall and Thanksgiving decorations.
Passing piles of colorful leaves along the streets, many blowing into swirls as
our car past and the smell of stale burning leaves and a smoky haze settling
along the ground. The smoke seemed to follow the car and slowly drift upward
into ghostly shapes as we passed by. Driving through the towns, I would look
down the alleys and see the rows of privies all aligned the backs of the homes
with dogs following children on bicycles, on their way to their next adventure.
Night would settle in and sleep would cause a time warp effect, stopping and
paying a toll to cross a bridge over the Ohio River, waking up long enough to
walk into a “Whites Only” bathroom in Frankfort, Kentucky. The curving roads of
the mountains, the smell of methane gas leaching from the hillside, my little
sister getting motion sickness and puking into the coffee can brought along for
such circumstances. Sleep would again come and the next awaking would be
pulling through the creeks of my grandparent’s home site. A warm greeting from
my aunt and uncle, who had arrived earlier, welcomed us as the night damp chill
of the hollow enfolded us as we gathered our suitcases and my shotgun. As we
entered my grandparent’s home, my boy cousins were nestled on a pallet of
blankets and quilts alongside the potbelly stove. I would soon take my place
among them and fall fast asleep once again. I was awakened by my grandfather
stoking the fire of the potbelly stove as he gave me a warm smile and asked me
if I was ready to take the dogs into the mountains. He reminded me he would
wait to feed them on our returning from the hunt and light was coming and I
need to get ready. I jumped up from the pallet into the chill of the room and
dressed quickly, putting on my green hunting boots and denim jacket. Grabbing
my hunting vest and shotgun, stepping onto the front porch and watched the coal
and wood smoke roll along the lower hollow. I gathered the excited dogs and
headed into mountains along the creeks edge as dawn made its presence. I had
gone no more than a hundred yard when a grouse rustled from beneath a clump of
grass and I wasn’t fast enough to pull the hammer back and get a shot off and
my excitement increased. I was now imagining myself walking back to the house
with several rabbits or squirrels and the thought of grouse would be a bonus.
As I went deeper into the woods, the hounds jumped a rabbit, it ran directly in
front of me, again, I wasn’t able to pull the hammer back, quick enough to get
a shot off. Following the livestock path deeper into the hills, along the side
of the creek, the hounds once again bae after jumping a creature. I knew I must
get to higher ground to intercept what the hounds were chasing in my direction.
I quickly moved up the hillside to gain a position on a ledge, as the hounds
bay became a constant scream as they quickly approached my position. My heart
was beating wildly as my breath trying to keep pace as I struggled to gain my
position on the ledge. I could hear the creature coming now and it sounded like
something larger than I expected to be hunting for. I reached the ledge,
gathered my position and readying myself, looking down at the hammer of my
shotgun as I shook with excitement, looking up just as a black bear was running
at me in a full run with the hounds just a few yards behind. Fearing a
collision, I stepped backwards into nothing, falling backwards, sliding and
rolling across the slimy clay and moss covered hillside and the flat sandstone
rocks, landing bottom side in the cold water of the creek with my shotgun held
tightly to my chest. The bear and dogs passed quickly as they headed down hill
to a large tree, far below my position. As I stood up, the cold water ran down
the back off my legs and adding additional water to my water logged boots. I
collected myself and located a position where I could remove my boots and dump
the water as I now shivered from the cold, it was going to be a long walk to my
grandparent’s home. Opening the gate to the yard and walking alongside the
house, I was met by my grandmother’s soft smile and a warm biscuit.
Our expectations of an event are often greater than the
actual event itself. We see ourselves in the final grandeur but all too often,
it’s not the event we remember, it’s the journey. Taking a comment from a famous newsman from
that era; Walter Cronkite, “and that’s the way it is, Thursday, November 26th,
Thanksgiving, 1964.
